If patriarchy was natural to humans, males wouldn't have had to brainwash and genocide their way into pushing themselves as the 'leaders'. They wouldn't have had to write an entire fictional book erasing women and painting themselves as the creators of life and main characters of everything. Even the misogynistic idea of a heterosexual family is matriarchal. The male has the power through an illusion, but it's the woman who actually takes care of and protects everyone. As we see on this day and age that women can now work and sustain themselves in some parts of the world, the male can be completely missing and the woman will still survive with her children. It is against our nature to hear and follow those who are meant to be talked to and lead.